| Descendents of John (Jack) Gower
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| Henry| Francis| King| b.1898| Woolston| d.1969| |
|1./|\Daisy |Seymour| |b.1893 |d.1922 | | |
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Joseph King b.1905 Southampton d.1918 Gosport |
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|Mary Maud |King |b.1911 |Southampton |d.1997 |Portsmouth |
Queenie Lilian Gower b.1914 Gosport \|/ |
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| Leslie| Godden| m.1940| d.1991| |
|Margaret |King |b.1920 |Gosport |d.2003 |
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Kirkby| | |Moira |Rosemary |Norris |b.1926 |Emsworth |
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Name: Seymour, Daisy May ; Record Type: Births
; Quarter: June ; Year: 1893 ; District: Alverstoke ; County: Hampshire
; Volume: 2b Page: 543 Births Mar 1908 - King Dorothy Alice S.
Stoneham 2c 46 Births 1911 Mary M. King South Stoneham March 2c 86 (born 8th February 1911) 1911 Census Marriage Certificate (click
images for bigger versions) On this marriage certificate : On October 3rd, 1913, Jack Gower, age 24, married Alice King/Farrer, age 37 - 13 years his senior and mother of four children - Henry (aka Harry/Frank), Joseph, Dolly and Mary -all Kings. At some point they moved to 6 Edward Place, Upper Mill Lane, next to the Forton Barracks in Forton Road, Gosport. Dolly (5) and Mary (2) moved with their mother. Their older brothers Joseph (8) and Frank (15) apparently also moved with them but Joseph died in 1918 and Henry/Frank was called up for the 1st World War as he was 18 in 1916. Alice had been living in Southampton with Thomas William King.There have always been family suspicions that Alice never married Mr. King and this is now confirmed. Apparently Mr. King died in the first world war, i.e. after Jack and Alice married. We have an earlier postcard from Jack addressed clearly to 'Dear Mr. and Mrs. King', so she was using that name. The blacksmiths photo on the right was kept in England by Queenie Gower and shows Jack on the right. Nothing on the back, apart from an unused postcard, but printed bottom left is 'RMLI [Royal Marines Light Infantry] Battery. The armourer's shop staff.' Probably taken in Gosport where RMLI was based, and it appears to be from a similar time to the one below and suggests that Jack was in Gosport for a while at this time before going to sea. The arm badge in the photo below is a pair of pliers crossed with a hammer, meaning a tradesman, which the Marines Museum curator in Portsmouth suggested was probably a farrier in those days. That ties in with the group of blacksmiths on the right. (see: Jack in the Royal Marines) Right: Queenie Gower, birth certificate:
Right - record of births (on the back 'Birth certificate King family): Photo right, sent from Australia, on the back:
Copied from Ron Gower's photos [Jack's nephew in Australia].
Jack Gower, his wife Alice. I believe the child's name was Vera [corrected
by Vera to 'Queenie'] born to Alice of a previous marriage I am told
[all crossed out by Vera as incorrect]. The first husband also
killed in the war. Queenie, in the photo, was born 29th August 1914, Vera was born 23 July 1916, so Jack must have been home 9 months earlier, October 1915, when Queenie would have been 1 year, 2 months. A copy of the photo sent to Australia says November 1915 on the back. Jack was 26 and Alice 39. Birth 1916 - Vera Gower, Sep, Alverstoke 2b 928 mother Farrer Death 1918 - Joseph King, age 13, Dec. Alverstoke 2b 1316 (Joe was buried in the same grave as Jack at Anne's Hill Cemetery)
Jack Gower, HMS Malaya, and the
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Dolly, 20, became substitute mother to Mary 17, Queenie 14 and Vera 12, and they moved to Somers Road, Southsea, to live with their older brother Henry (aka Harry/Frank, known at this time as Frank) and his 'wife' and child, their Auntie Jessie had already moved over to live with Frank and there were now eight of them in a 3 bedroom house. Frank shared the main bedroom with his common-law wife, Louisa, and four year old daughter, Doreen; the four girls shared the middle room and Jessie had the small bedroom. At this time Frank was apparently driving coaches between Portsmouth and London. This arrangement soon broke down when Frank 'diappeared', apparently to London, where he had another job driving coaches between London and the north of England. He abandoned Louisa and Doreen who went to live with Louisa's sister. At some point Louisa had demanded that the girls all be moved to Royal Marine's orphanage, even before Frank left, but Dolly would have none of that and the four girls found a room, literally one room with shared facilities, in Albert Rd., Southsea. Times were hard and Vera remembers being sent home from school for having dirty clothes. They all found work in service, Queenie for a Jewish family in Southsea while Mary and Vera became a cook and housemaid for another family in Craneswater Park, Southsea. Apparently Jack's sister, Bertha, had offered to raise Queenie and Vera in Australia, but not Dolly and Mary as they were not Jack's daughters. The girls refused to be separated. Jessie found employment as a housekeeper for a man in the Fareham area. She married him in 1931 and inherited his house.
1940 Marriage - French, Leonard m.Mary M. King, 1940 Jun, Wandsworth, 1d 1384 By the late 1930s Mary had moved to London, married Len French, and they lived the rest of their lives in a very pleasant flat in Putney, complete with a baby-grand piano and tennis club across the road which they used regularly (see Mary & Len right). Quite a change of lifestyle.
Dolly suffered a nervous breakdown and spent the war in St.James hospital, Portsmouth. Dolly then found work as a housekeeper for a retired bank manager, Mr. Sandecombe, in Twyford Avenue, Portsmouth. He died in 1967 leaving the house to his son but giving Dolly the right to live there for there rest of her life. Unfortunately for the son Dolly lived to 92, by which time he had died and the house went to the grandson. Vera shared the house with her from 1967, but managed to keep her council flat in Gosport by returning to it once a week for 33 years, eventually returning there when Dolly died in 2000.
left: Dolly (Dorothy King) in Queenie and Albert's back garden in the late 1950s, age about 50. This would have been on a Tuesday afternoon as that was always her afternoon off from her housekeeper job, and she always went out to visit Queenie. right: Mary (nee King) and Len French on Putney Heath in the late 1950s. Mary would have been in her mid-late 40s. See also: The Mysterious Mr. King - for Henry Francis King. |